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Single parenthood by choice

A deeply personal decision, supported by a practical plan.

RCA helps single intended parents understand donor options, fertility testing, treatment choices, timing, and the support network that can make the path feel manageable.

Woman exploring single parenthood by choice

Fertility paths · Single parenthood by choice

There is more than one way
to arrive here.

For women building a family on their own, the starting point is an individual evaluation of your health, fertility and goals. Explore six connected options at your own pace.

You

Your history.
Your goals.
Your timeline.

Donor sperm

Choose a donor, then connect the choice to your treatment.

Donor sperm can be used for IUI, IVF or embryo freezing. Your care team helps you review sperm-bank or known-donor options, screening, genetic compatibility, counseling and the practical steps before treatment.

Explore donor sperm planning ↗

Donor sperm is a choice that connects to several treatment paths. These options can overlap: a gestational carrier, for example, can be part of an IVF or donor-embryo plan. Suitability is individualized; no treatment guarantees a future pregnancy.

Donor sperm · Your choice, supported

A donor choice.
A plan that connects the pieces.

Donor sperm can be part of IUI, IVF or embryo freezing. Choosing a donor and choosing a treatment are connected decisions, guided by your evaluation and goals.

  1. 01

    Explore donor options

    Discuss sperm-bank and known-donor options, donor information and your preferences with the care team.

  2. 02

    Review screening

    Review medical and infectious-disease screening, genetic carrier screening compatibility and any additional evaluation needed.

  3. 03

    Prepare together

    Counseling can help you consider donor conception and future disclosure. Discuss applicable legal steps, especially with a known donor.

  4. 04

    Connect to treatment

    Confirm the appropriate sperm preparation, supply, delivery and storage with your clinic before purchase or treatment.

Bank and known-donor arrangements have different requirements. Your team explains what applies to your plan.

Explore IUI ↗ · Explore IVF ↗ · Explore embryo freezing ↗

Discuss donor sperm →

Preservation · Planning ahead

Freeze now.
Decide what comes next, later.

Egg freezing and embryo freezing share the early steps. Choosing donor sperm and fertilization are additional decisions when freezing embryos.

  1. 01

    Evaluation

    Review your history, age, ovarian reserve, ultrasound findings and personal timeline.

  2. 02

    Stimulation

    Injectable medication and monitoring help a group of eggs mature. The duration and schedule vary.

  3. 03

    Retrieval

    Eggs are collected during an outpatient procedure, usually with sedation.

  4. 04

    Freezing & storage

    Eggs are vitrified, or fertilized with donor sperm before suitable embryos are frozen and stored.

More than one cycle may be discussed depending on age, response and your goals. Frozen eggs or embryos do not guarantee pregnancy; future use involves additional treatment and costs.

Explore preservation in more detail ↗

Conceiving now · Donor conception

A donor. A treatment plan.
A path shaped around you.

Donor sperm may come from a screened bank or a known donor. Screening, counseling and applicable legal steps are reviewed before treatment.

A

IUI with donor sperm

Prepared sperm is placed in the uterus near ovulation.

A conversation to have

Often discussed when ovulation and at least one open fallopian tube support this approach. Your clinician considers age and the full evaluation.

Learn about this route ↗
B

IVF with your own eggs

Egg retrieval and fertilization take place before embryo transfer.

A conversation to have

May be discussed for a tubal factor, earlier treatment outcomes, or an individualized need for IVF. Low ovarian reserve alone does not decide the route.

Learn about this route ↗
C

Donor eggs or embryos

Embryos are transferred after the uterus is prepared.

A conversation to have

May be considered when using your own eggs is unlikely to meet your goals, or as a personal family-building choice. Availability and requirements vary.

Learn about this route ↗

Additional choices · Connected support

The details matter.
You can explore them together.

Your consultation connects medical options with donor decisions, practical planning and the support you want.

Discuss your path →

Educational references: ASRM donor conception · ASRM PGT-A guidance

Donor sperm selection

Review bank or known-donor options, infectious-disease screening, genetic carrier screening compatibility and counseling. Legal questions are addressed before treatment.

Gestational carrier planning

Discuss whether a carrier is medically appropriate, how embryos will be created, and the screening, counseling and legal steps.

Embryo genetic testing

Testing requires embryos created through IVF. Discuss the type of test, potential benefits and limits; PGT-A is not routinely recommended for everyone.

Your support circle

Plan appointments, medication help, transportation, costs and the people you want involved. Counseling can support donor-conception and family-building decisions.

Clear coordination

You may be choosing parenthood independently. You do not have to navigate treatment alone.

A dedicated care plan can bring the medical, donor, financial, counseling, and scheduling pieces into one sequence.

When donor eggs are part of the plan, visit RCA Egg Donation for the connected donor and intended-parent experience.

Patient in a calm fertility consultation

Your next step

Begin with a conversation about the family you want.